Today we had a meeting at nursery regarding my sonโs speech. He is 28 months, babbles away, says the odd word but communicates to us brilliantly in other ways. ๐๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐.
But this got me thinking about the pressure which is put on us (and our little ones) regarding development milestones and the anxiety this can bring.
Right from the moment our babyโs are born; everything starts to feel like it defines us as a parent. When things go right, we are proud. But when things donโt โgo to planโ we compare ourselves to others, think weโve done something wrong or start to question if we are good enough.
The next time these thoughts start to pop up, try to keep these four things in mind;
โข Our children have their own process & timeline
โข Our children are their own person; they are individuals.
โข There are many unexpected twists & turns in parenthood; that is normal.
โข Our childrenโs feelings are not always about us. Feeling sad/angry are all normal emotions.
Although itโs easier said then done; ๐๐จ๐ง๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ฌ ๐
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